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Boyfriend's wandering eye?
I'm 15/f and my boyfriend of a little over 2 months is 15/m. We have the same group of friends (which is mostly guys) so whenever we hang out with friends there aren't really girls there. But if we go out somewhere I usually find him staring at some other random girl. I'm not really worried at this point, but I just wanted to make sure it is nothing harmful? I just don't want to become one of the girlfriends that is constantly like "OMG do you like her?" so I don't think talking to him about it is a great idea. It's not like a really bad problem or anything but it just bothers me a little. I figured you would be a good person to ask since you are about my age. Thanks.
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Hello. Thanks for asking in my inbox, I appreciate it =].
I think that this is normal: Both his "wandering eye" and your worrying. Its all normal! I've read somewhere that guys' eyes are naturally inclined to look at a girl and "examine" her when they are passing by or in front of them. Sure- sounds ridiculous.. but really.. all of us, if you think about it, have wandering eyes.
I'm not trying to make excuses for your boyfriend- because he could just be checking other girls out. I personally don't see much wrong with it if he's not chasing after them asking them for their numbers. However- I can understand how girls would see this differently.
If he's staying with you- he most likely is interested in JUST you, not some random girls that pass by when you go somewhere. Sure- they may fancy his eye- but its only for 2 seconds =].
If it seems to become an overbearing problem- then you should talk to him.
--Jack
(15/m)
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