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Question Posted Monday July 16 2007, 7:13 pm

hey. i like this guy who has a facebook & we sorta talked a few times last year.

i want to send him a message just saying, "hey, how's it going?" but i'm scared he'll be like, "uhh why is she messaging me..." you know?

i just want to be friends [for now] & i don't want to go out with him.

what's something i can do to make it less awkward? like should i think of a REASON to have messaged him or what?

thanks so much. i really needed a good looking guy's opinion. & i also saw how happy you were when people give you inbox questions haha.


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Cux answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:21 pm:
Well- thank you for posting in my inbox.. and just today [its odd] I've gotten 5 inbox questions, and I feel like people value my opinion!
So you need a "good looking guy's opinion"?
I think that's funny because I get that a lot on here, but not in school.. people at school are jerks, though =].

ANYWAY! I think you should just say "Hey, how are you?" or whatever, because whatever you say will get him wondering "Uhh.. why is she messaging me..?", as I know I do that when someone I don't know randomly messages me.
Saying that simple "Hey, how are you?" is the simplest and most effective way to be casual.
I think it's your best bet!

--Jack
(15/m)

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