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it was commitment issues were that this guy was completely perfect for me and i thought that i was ready for a realationship.. but when it came down to it, i couldn't take that plunge. and i think that it was because i liked this guy alot.. and i was scared of getting hurt by him or hurting him. but now its like that with EVERY realationship that starts and i end up distancing myself.. its wierd..
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Plenty of people seem to have this issue and most times it really puzzles those around them.
I think you just need to go for it, if you like someone you should try it out with them. There is certainly a possibility of being hurt, but there also is a possibility that won't happen at all, and that you two will be happy together.
You don't know until you try, and being scared of it is only human. You must overcome you fear someway, and the best way to do it is to try it out.
Not every relationship is going to work out, but there are those that do. Don't skip those relationships, by turning them down you're letting your fears get in the way. ]
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