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Stuck in a bit of love truble
okay so im with this guy D and he is really really shy and i really nice and i was at a party last nite and he came late and before he came his buds saw me kinda flirting with this other guy i kinda like ..J...and J is not shy at all hes cuter then D and has more in common with me and he brings the better out of me...im afraid to go into another relationship because of summer and i dont kno if he likes me as well as D is very shy and really likes me and i dont want to break up with him on the fone what should i do
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if you dont want to hurt his feelings you hould tell him you need to take a break to think things over and tell j you dont want to go into a relahonhip right know if he really loves you like d he will wait for you if not stay with the man that loves you most
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Ok well it sounds to me like your more into J then you are D right now. That happends, don't think that you did anything wrong. I was in a relationship with a very shy guy for a couple months and it's deffinatly hard, and in that time that we spent together I found myself flirting with other guys. It's only natural to want to be with someone who you can talk to and have a good time with. Well I say don't stay with D. Because it isn't fair to him to like someone else, and it seems to me like you just are growing away from eachother. As far as getting into a relationship after I would wait. Breaking up with D will be hard, but you'll feel better if you don't text it, or aim it. If he's shy in person then it would be very embaressing and maybe even tramtic to do it in person. If it comes right I would, but honestly it might be better if you did it on the phone. That way he doesn't have to worry about being embarressed or not knowing what to say. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it in person, but only if it comes right. After you breakup I'm sure J will find out. If he likes you he will ask you about it, and make a move, then you'll know if your ready. If he doesn't then don't go back to D. Give it some time, every guy is afraid to make the first move. And summer relationships are fun, and you'll be out of school and have more time to spend and hang out. Good luck! :)
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