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S.O.S. reputation at risk, confused over my guy friend!!!
Hi. I'm a 14-year old female.I have this friend that I like a lot as a friend but I also have a crush on him as well. The thing is, I can't be in a situation where the two of us could be together, because of our reputations, and it's against my religious beliefs. There's a large group of girls at my school that hates the people I am friends with, as well as myself; what's important about that is that if this guy and I got together, they would never leave me alone about it for as long as I live! I initially wouldn't care, but I just don't want to put up with them. It's really confusing because I want to be just friends with him anyway, but I also have a major crush on him. I want to be able to stop liking him that way but still be just friends. Is there anything I can do so this could happen? Thanks.
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so in your case you really cant like get with him right??? and theres no options the only option is to get over him??? well yeah i feel your pain because i dont understand how you can just keep turning your own crushes down because of the fact you cant date him but thats fine though i understand it also..
Yeah getting over guys is the hardest thing, just hang out with your friends alot and do fun stuff things you dont normally do and it will help you get him off your mind its going to take a while believe me and dont talk to him during the time you are trying to get over him and then when you finaally feel your over him gradually talk to him again and just as friends this time.. also try to talk to other guys cause i meen not so that you start liking other ones.. but if you talk to more guys it will help get over one becuase they will all be your friends and you cant like them all so then youll be able to be around him as a friend just like the other guys. I had a situation that i liked a guy for the longest time and we were on and off for a while and i eventually got over him sometimes when his name comes up i dont even think at all like its just like any other guy nothing special .. trust me youll get over him dont worry just ask your friends to help you.. they always do.
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