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So, it's getting to the age where basically everyone I know is getting involved with guys and things. But the only thing is, I'm basically the only one out of my friends that has never had a proper boyfriend. I do get crushes, but it seems like everyone I've liked recently likes someone else. And that someone else is usually this girl "Lucy" that everyone seems to fancy. I'm quite confident, but she's so much more than me and I think that's what the guys like about her because it's not like she's stunning and I'm freakishly ugly. What can I do to get guys drawn to me like she does?
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I know just how you feel. You said she seems confident? That's what you should strive for. That's one thing that you can change about yourself. You have to realize that you cannot make guys like you. 14 is a rough age for everyone, and 14/15 year old guys aren't the smartest when it comes to girls. Right now, a lot of them don't know what they want in a girlfriend, and they just go for girls for shallow reasons. However, the right guy will come around, I promise. But you're not going to 'find' him. It'll just happen if you give it tim. Now, what you should do... Honestly, be yourself. I see too many girls change themselves to what they think guys want to see. Confidence, as I mentioned, is one thing you want on your side. Try to be outgoing. Sometimes when you're too shy, guys will find it too hard to talk to you and just give up and move on. Another thing. You have to stop comparing yourself to Lucy or any other girl. I know it's hard, every single girl in the world does it at times. But you will never be truly confident and love yourself if you don't set your own expectations for yourself. That is where it all starts.
Good Luck, I hope things work out =)
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