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Hooked on Him.
Okay so there is this guy, i really really like him. hes cute, and funny, and smart. sounds like the perfect guy, right? We have known eachother for almost a year now and we used to be dating, we only dated for about a month, then i broke up with him. but when i broke up with him i still liked him, so then i told him so we got back together. then i broke up with him.. i dont even remember why! and then i told him i liked him.. and he said "Well, i like you alot too but you always break up with me and then get back together, its a repeating thing". Then i promised him i wouldnt do it again... so then we were going out and i was super super happy. but he wasnt talking to me, like he wouldnt answer me on AIM or MSN or anything. i tried giving him space but then a week went by and still he ddint talk. so i got really pissed and i broke up with him and i told him that i'd rather be his friend if hes gonna talk to me then to be his gf if hes gonna ignore me. and he never replied "ok" or "bye". he still didnt talk to me. And this was about 2 weeks ago. now he finally started talking to me very little. now heres my problem.. im hooked on him! i like him so very much and i cant control it. But i dont know what i should do. or how to get unhookd off him. should i tell him i like him again? should i just remain friends. im boy hooked ;[
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You have taken him for granted one too many times and he is gunshy so to speak. Why would he want to endure anymore torture from you? You are going to have to give him time and space and stop playing games. A week is not enough time to react and get pissed at him. He probably is starting to think you are either psycho or not worth the trouble, so back off. This is the only chance you have at gaining back his trust. Be available to him and talk to him when he pursues, but don't chase after him or demand anything or make another ultimatum. Guys don't like being manipulated, so show him some respect.
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