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Friends with Benefits.
17/f Is friends with benefits a bad idea if I have feelings for the guy? We've had this thing going on for months, and we're really good friends but I know he just wants to make out. I don't have a problem with us just doing that but I don't want to get emotionally hurt which I know may happen if I have real feelings for him.
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If you have feelings for him, and he does not have those feelings for you, it will only turn out badly. Trust me. You WILL get attached, and when, down the road, he starts to really like a girl, you will be heartbroken. A friends with benefits relationship can only truly work if both people involved have no romantic feelings for each other. So, I wouldn't advise it. By not putting yourself in that position, you will save yourself lots of heartache down the road. It sounds to me like you already have a feeling that it will not turn out well. Go with your feeling, whatever it is.
Good luck =)
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You should find out if he has the same feelings for you. Asking and being honest is the best thing to do in this case. I had a similar situation, and now we're going out! :]
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jsut tell him you want more and if he doesnt then be like i cant do this anymore!
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