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adviceeee, please?!?!?!?
ohhkay well..
iv been like off an on with the same guy for almost 2 months now. we've broken up and got back together 6 times. i realllllly reallllly like him, oohkay well im basically in love with him. We just started going back out on the 16th and everything like perfect, except we argue, alot, and he says that if we keep asrgeing its not gunna work out. I mean its not even like were fighting or anything? were just argueing about stupid stuf, like yesterday he told me his friends told him that when i was at the beach i had sex with one of the guys i met, and its not true cause iv never even done it, and i got really mad cause his friends say a bunch of stuff about me and im just sick of it, so we started argueing about me being mad? like i wasnt mad, just kinda fustarted with everything. so i dunno what to do cause i dont wanna lose him over something dumb ?
ohkay thats one thing now theres another hah..
how long should you wait to do it with someone?
me & my boyfriend have been talking about it & i think we might this week. its only been a weel & 1 day sice we started going out (this time) but if you add up all the other times we went out its like about a month... is that tooooo short of a time? i mean i really care about him & love him. He says he REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY likes me. im thinken that if we do it, it might make him wanna stay around long and like me even more ? is that bad ? idk well help, pleaseeee =)
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Okay, well first off.. you weren't getting mad over something dumb.. someone making things up about your sex life is indeed something to be angry about. My boyfriend and I argue alot too, but we've been going out solidly for 10 months and have never broken up.
And, well, yes.. it is sort of bad that you want to have sex with him to make him stay around.. Don't do it until you're 100% sure that you want to. If you have to ask Advicenators if you're ready for sex or not, then you are simply not ready.. when you are, you'll just know.. trust me ♥ hope i helpeddd =)
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