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Pleasing my wife
My intimate life with my wife in the bedroom is on fire, i would like that fire to be on always, r there any married couples out there or married women who can give me advise on ways i can keep my woman on fire always intimately? i dont ever want it to die down, i know sex is not everything in the relationship but i know its also an important part to a fruitful relationship..
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I have been married for over 20 years.
I love my husband. I have not been with another man since I met him. I can't imagine waking up without him being next to me.
Your question seems to imply that you already know that it's quite possible that the "flames" you're feeling right now will cool down. Let me spare you the suspense: It will. But if you love your wife, truly, deeply--then the excitement and newness gets replaced with something deeper, quieter, calmer, more complete that you can imagine. It's a dance that you learn, by practicing--over and over--you both know the steps, you know how it's going to end--but have you ever really watched an older couple on the dance floor, maybe at a wedding reception--they're so totally into it that everyone else disappears.
But, back to your question. Do you remember how you acted on your first date? You opened the car door for her. You told her she looked beautiful. You said "please" and "thank you". You listened to her. You laughed with her. Your body language said "I can't believe i'm here with you!!"
A little of that goes a long way. The best advice i can give you is this: Let her know that you are worthy of her complete trust. If she knows that she can tell you anything, ask for anything in the bedroom, and that you are serious about pleasing her (which you obviously are), then you are on your way to having a great relationship. It won't always be fireworks--but it will always be special.
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all you have to is let her know that you want a little more, it's always best to be truthful to your spous, and if she denies your request, then set up a romantic dinner and you may get a little somthing if you put the effort into it. a woman always loves it when you care about her enough to spend an entire afternoon to make her something that will please her.
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I'm not married but try new things, new places, new positions, that kind of stuff.
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