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two guys
13/f
ok well I really really really like this guy. I'm not going to see him (on a regular basis, like i mgiht run into him once or twice) until july. Also, he's a few years older than me and it probably won't turn into anything.
I also like this other guy. He's my age and we're pretty good friends, but he's like IN LOVE with this other girl, and i'm really not his type anyway.
Which one should i go after?
How should i go after them?
Thanks!
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Definitely don't go after the first guy, it's not worth your time. It sounds like realistically there's not much of a chance with him, because he's older and most guys a couple years older are only interested in younger girls for anything other than sex or stuff like that. If you think you have a chance with the second guy, go for it! Just make sure you don't mess up your friendship by trying to hard. Flirt a little, talk to him a lot, and if he responds positively keep going. If it doesn't look like it's going anywhere after a while give up on him and find someone worth your time. Good luck!
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Okay, realistically, nothing is going to happen between either of two from the way it sounds. The first guy you aren't going to see much of and he's older than you so probably the only thing he would want from you is sex or anything sexual. You probably think differently and have some romantic fantasy going on in your head, but realistically nothing will happen.
If you were going to go after one of them, then make it the second guy. He may not be your type, but most relationships are like that. Ever heard the phrase "opposites attract"? But if he's IN LOVE with another girl, then I don't know what to say.
If you think you've got a shot then go for it!! Flirt, hug, do whatever you've got to do but be yourself. But if you think you'd be just wasting your time then move onto another guy.
-Katie
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well I think you should go for the guy your own age. Start showing an intrest in what he likes. that doesn mean you have to do change yourself. Start trying to firlt with him. You never know he might end up liking you a little bi later but if it doesnt work out dont give up there are many guys out there.
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