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ok so heres the deal ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 5 days but i know hes the one i want to be with and he was telling me about his past and he always had sex and he said he had sex with like 5 girls so should i stay with him because its no big deal but then im wondering if he might want to have sex with me and i do but i kinda dont because i havent had sex before and i dont think im that big in boobs and guys dont like small girls so please help cause im scared if i should do it and this might sound like a stupid question but can you give me step by step on how to make-out cause i dont know how to and i want to really bad.
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First off, don't give him up just yet because he's slept with other girls. Insist that unless he goes and gets tested for STD's you will not sleep with him. And don't believe him if he says he doesn't have any. Better safe than sorry and make sure he shows you the doctor's note. If he's responsible enough to have sex, he's responsible to get tested for disease and keep you safe, which should be his number one concern.
Another thing you may want to consider is the fact that he might be lying about sleeping with the other girls just so he can sound experienced. He might just be trying to sound cool.
If he gets angry over you asking him to get tested, dump him right away. No guy like that is worth being with. And if you're concerned he won't love you because you have a small chest, you need to break up with him then too. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM UNTIL YOU ARE 100% POSITIVE YOU ARE READY. I DON'T CARE HOW BAD HE WANTS IT. IF YOU AREN'T READY, PLEASE DON'T DO IT.
There are jerks out there, but there are also plenty of wonderful guys out there too. The hard part is just finding them. And every girl deserves a man that will respect her safety, see how beautiful she is no matter what the size of her chest is, and will respect her boundaries.
So, like I said, give him a chance and if he does the good things I just described, he's most likely a keeper.
As for the whole making out thing, you may have heard this before, but it seriously is different for everyone. How you do it and what's comfortable for you is something that you and only you can find out. I CAN, however, give you a few suggestions I have found to be useful:
-guys like it when you run your hands through their hair, up and down their backs, or up and down their chests.
-don't use too much tongue. if you feel spit coming out the corners of your mouth, you're using too much.
-don't be afraid to pause, lick your lips, and swallow any excess saliva before continuing
-don't bite. it's okay to kind of suck on his lip, but don't bite.
-it's cute when the two people hold each other really tight while making out. it's a safe way to be close to each other and feel each other.
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