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i'm in love with a guy..but he just wants to be friends!
I'm in love with this guy..but he just wants to be friends! I went out with this guy last August and he broke my heart by going back to his old girlfriend of 2yrs. This guy took my virginity and i took his. After we broke up in September I tryed my best to get over him..but instead all I could do is think about him. Well just this past Janurary he called me and told me that him and his girlfriend broke up and that he would like to see me. So about a week later we went on a date and we talked about alot of things and we came to a conclusion that we should just be friends for right now since he's in college and i'm in high school and it would be really hard to leave each other all the time since he has to go back to college, even know we done it once before and the relationship worked out great but it was hard! anyways I thought it would be a great idea just to be friends, well now that we are just friends its really hurting me because everytime I see him I want so much more it kills me that I can't kiss him no more or be in his arms because were just friends. It hurts me so bad to the point were I just want to tell him that I can't be his friend because everytime I see him it hurts me because I can't have what I want. Which is him! I will always love him no matter what and he knows that I just wish we could have the realationship we once had. please give me some advice on what to do..or what to tell him. Thanks
sex:female
Age:17
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Everybody goes through this in life. And it's always asked. well i think the best thing is to ask him if ya'll can do the ol' "friend with benefits" thing. Ask him if ya'll can do the same things just in a more friendly way. I don't thin it'll hurt. just try it. It's not immature, lots of people do it. But if he doesn't want to do that either just forget it. I KNOW it's going to be hard but move on or you can get some help. Psychatrist, perhaps? or just get help from a close friend who you know that will care for you and your problem.
Well i hope i helped. <3
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