so I just saw your column- and you give really good advice, so I thought I would ask you something. I really like my best friend Luke and he's so amazing! I've known him since the 7th grade, I'm in 10th. And I just wanted to know if there is a way to ask him out on a date? I mean- he really likes Mexican food, so should I ask him to Taco Bell? or is that not romantic! I want him to be impressed by me and my choices. Like I want him to notice my hair, because I spend like 5 hours everyday on it just for him- I start school at 10am and go until like 6pm (I live in Montana) and sometimes I get a lot of homework, and I'm starting to get stressed because my grades are dropping, and I don't think colleges will want me in them! What do I do? I just want Luke to likke me, and I want this other guy Jake to like me, because he's totally cute!!!!
what do I do, SpreadLove?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SpreadLove answered Tuesday February 27 2007, 5:34 pm: well... if you really want to ask Luke on a date... just ask him if he wants to hang out... like say that you guys could go to a movie... and get taco bell afterwards.... you prolly don't want anything too romantic yet... if your just trying to get him to like you... just start with flirting and hanging out... and with the other guy... i think it would make things easier if you focused on one guy... and with the grades thing... you need to be able to focus on both... try to spend more time on hw.. and i've found that guys like girls better when they don't try to impress them... like... don't over do it... sometimes guys think its ridiculous when girls over do it... if you know what i mean! i hope this helped! [ SpreadLove's advice column | Ask SpreadLove A Question ]
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