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guysareconfusing:/
theres this guy, andrew. i like him a lot. I kind of knew him last year, but i know him a lot better this year. he's the sweetest thing ever.
he always asks me about myself. but recently, he's been acting weird. he'll ask me something and seem genuinely interested, but as soon as i respond, it seems like he loses interest completely. why would he do that?
oh and ps, i saw that in your about me you wrote a lot about your country. I just wanted you to know that i went there last year, and I thought it was absolutely beautiful. I would love to live there, and you're so lucky to.
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Firstly, every one is different, so it is kinda difficult to pin down the exact reason he is doing it. But there can be some causes to this kind of behaviour.
1) he has grown bored with life. He is tired of just talking, and wants to go out there and do do something. So he starts up a conversation with the intention of getting some excitement, but then he just loses that sense for a while.
2) he might like you, I dunno but i found this happening to myself. When i would go out and talk to the girl that I like, I just couldn't pay attention to her. I felt like I knew what she was going to say, so I didn't put in too much effort into actually hearing what she had to say. (Luckily for me, all my guesses as to what she would say matched, so no problems.)
3) It might just be the opposite scenario. He is looking up this other girl right? or was thinking about another one, and then looked at you and you just don't seem good enough. He knows he likes you so he asks you this cool question, but as soon as you start talking he feels like, "dude, this girl is cool, but she lacks something and I do not even know why I am talking to her."
4) or in a scenario related to #3 he knows you and you two are good friends, and he just kind find anything wrong with you, and it starts to bug him. You are kinda perfect in a sense, but that "emotion" for you is not there. So he is doing the cool friend thing and talking to you, but he tunes out because he just can't believe that you are so cool. He is unsure of what is out there in the world, so he feels reluctant to be your friend.
I am not sure, it depends on the type of guy.
You say he is the sweetest thing so I will make an assumption that he is some kind of gentleman. (if he wasn't there would be a whole next pile of reasons). But hey, everyone is different, it could even be something far out like he had a dream that you were the devil.
Hope I helped,
Cj
About Belize, Yeah it is cool, but our rainy season is just finishing. We had rain everyday from October 25th until January 2nd this year. Now it has stopped raining so I can finally go about the place again.
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