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2 guys one tough choice
hey you just answered a question for me a while ago....well i have another situation...you see ive been friends with this guy from the same department as me for a while now and he really likes me...he asked me out once and i said i didnt feel that way for him, and then now that im getting into a new guy he asked me out again tonight! hes so sweet and like a great guy but theres nothing there for me whereas this new guy does have that spark for me, but i havent really spoken to him that much! ugh i dont know what to do im just so confused:S you knw wat i mean...any thoughts on the matter would be great:D thanks
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Hey, it's me again. I'm kind of in a situation like this, except, I'm in highschool. Okay, first things first.
This gut you do like, what is it that you like about him? His looks? His personality? Both? If you haven't been able to talk to him much, that's a definite thing to do. Now this other guy, his personality is okay, right?
Wow this is hard. A relationship is the best and will succeed if you start out as friends. If you're attracted to the new guy you're just because of his looks...get to know him better. I believe that a person you truly like will keep you thinking about them. Believe me. I like someone so much, I think he's driving me crazy! Especially since I see him maybe twice a month. If you can't stop thinking about the new guy, here's what you do...
If you can't stop thinking about him, it's probably best you become friends with him, and maybe date him, if you're serious. Then in this situation, maybe the guy who likes you could be a great friend. Although you may not be attracted to him, try telling him that you'd like to get to know him better--as friends! Maybe he could surprise you! He's probably shy. It's always hard to make the first move.
If for any reason it doesn't work out with the new guy, then this guy you work with will be there to support and comfort you. And so will I, I'll be here too. Who knows? Maybe your admirer might catch your eye! Try to be friends with the guy, remember: you can never have enough friends! But go with your heart. If there's someone you can't get out of your head, someone who drives you crazy, they're the one. Just know that I'm here and I'll always be here to help. Good luck! You'll be fine!
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