Question Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 11:07 pm
im 21 going on 22 i got married at 20 and had a baby 8 months ago...i love my husband VERY much but i'v noticed that lately i have been looking at other girls a lot, and had a couple sexual dreams about me with another girl not anyone i know just a random girl...i am still attracted to my husband but our sex life has gone down hill i think it might just be the whole new parenting thing so i talked with my husband and he is not worried but i am a little, i mean am i a lesbian? or bi? or am i straight and just going through a phase?...please help
Additional info, added Saturday January 20 2007, 11:47 pm: i guess what i really wnat to know is what can i do to figure this out without emotionally hurting my husband or myself, im really very confused about the whole thing. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TARAfying answered Saturday January 20 2007, 11:53 pm: Your mind can play pretty crazy tricks on you. After hearing your story, I personally think... After having these dreams, you got into a mindset that scared you. You started freaking out & thinking I must be attracted to women? Or something like that? If your thoughts were souly trigered by these dreams, just remember you CAN'T control what you think while sleeping. So you have nothing to worry about. If I'm way off on this, I'm sorry. Best of luck! [ TARAfying's advice column | Ask TARAfying A Question ]
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