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This Girl
This is kind of a iffy situation. I'm a girl and there's this girl in a grade higher than me. Well, we met through a friend at one of his little get togethers this year and she's an awesome girl. The thing is--I don't know if she's bi or not. I, myself am not out of the closet yet since it's kind of intiminating to come out when the whole school is a homophobic crowd and when 2 out 3 of my friends are gay or bi. But I really wanna go out with this girl and I know that there is a way for us to go out without people knowing since my bi friends went out without people knowing--other than their close friends.
But anywhos, I'm wondering if there is a way I can ask her if she's bi without her knowing it's me. And no, the friend that introduced us to each other is not able to ask since he talks way too much and it would seem suspicious if I asked him to ask her if she's bi..so help?
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Well, the thing that I would do in this situation is just to get a group together and invite her along. Go to like the movies. Just start getting close without her noticing. Kind of flirt but small stuff. Like laughing. If she makes a move on you which she probably will just go along with it. Thats how you'll know if she bi or gay.
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