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I know in the real world, this doesn't really matter, but as a high school junior who's romantically interested in a freshman, I really need help. I met him in marching band, and instantly, we clicked. He's everything that I've ever looked for in a guy, right down to the band geekiness. Unfortunatly, I'm more of a traditional person, so when he reciprocated my feelings for him, I was torn between accepting and rejecting. Not only that, but I am of a high leadership position in the band, so I know that rumors will fly, perhaps even getting in the way of his wishes to become drum major. He's still waiting for my answer. You seem to give really good advice, so I'm hoping to hear from you soon!
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i'm glad you came to me for advice! and let me tell you this, i can totally relate to your position. i am of a leadership position in marching band as well, and i know words flies FAST in the band family, so i can understand your worries about rumors and such. now ask yourself if these so-called "rumors" may affect you as well. but also take in consideration to follow your heart, i cannot stress that enough these days. if you think it is the right decision for you, take it, but only when you've given it much thought. if you're worried about rumors spreading and it affecting his reputation, so to speak, talk to him about your worries and your doubts. make sure you communicate with each other and let him know what you think about the situation. let him know that you're worried about the whole rumors situation. most likely, he wouldn't mind it at all because of his feelings for you. but talk it out, and i'm sure you'll work something out. as for the rumors part of it, i wouldn't worry about it too much. rumors CAN ruin your reputation, but hey, if they're not true, forget about them. the people who started them are probably jealous or envy what you have that they don't. best wishes to you! (:
if you need any further, don't hesitate to ask! i'm MORE than happy to help you =]
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