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Me and my 'ex' and my 'new'
Well, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of about 2 years a few months ago. It was a really hard break-up(you know crying and stuff) but we both got through it. He broke up with me because he said that I treated him badly. TREATED HIM BADLY? He treated me terribly. He would call in the middle of the night(while I was sleeping) and expect me to talk to him. Plus, he would say rude things to me like, 'you should wear your hair down' or 'you looked terrible in that outfit today'. Then at school he would walk me to classes and not say good-bye, and talk to other girls but not me. Its like he had no respect for me. But on the brightside, he was such a sweetheart. He would write me poems and put them in my locker and would send me things to always make me smile. After we broke up, I started seeing this guy, lets call him 'B'. B is the nicest guy I've ever met, but he lacks in romance. And now all of my friends say my ex(lets call him 'J') likes me again. He was rude, but totally romantic and sweet. I don't know what to do! Should I stay with 'B'(the nice guy) or go back out with 'J'(the romantic one) please help! I love being respected, but I also love having someone be romantic, by having picnics, candlelight dinners, late movies! I don't know what to do!
Please help. :[
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This guy 'J' sounds like total bad news. The relationship you were in before 'B' sounds like an verbally abusive one & i know I would not want to be put down like that. Why bother with a guy who has you confused all the time? Maybe when you're with 'B' play the romantic role, and maybe he'll pick up and start being more romantic. But my advice is to stay with 'B' because he sounds a lottt more nice and would probably be the better boyfriend of the two.
Hope this helps;; xx
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