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Question Posted Monday October 16 2006, 5:41 pm

so your saying that even though all 3 of us had the 3some..my husband was 1st then the other guy...and after that i got straight up and went to the rest room..then unexpected company came by...and i felt it leaking out of me...then later that night on the 14th me and my husband did it again...then again on the 17...so even if i got right up...and my husband was 1st...there still is a chance of being the other guyz...and i know i have no STD'S...im pregnant , and always go to my appointments...plz!!! we are so stressed about this, but the good thing is i still made it thru the 1st trimester...even though we are terribly stressed

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Additional info, added Monday October 16 2006, 5:43 pm:
and how do you get a sperm count test without being obvious...it so embarrassing...that we even considered something like this...i guess its tru...u reap what you sew.

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BitsandPieces answered Monday October 16 2006, 10:27 pm:
So the husband had more chances with the number of times, but if the other guy has faster swimmers...which I don't have any idea, then it could even the odds. I always got pregnant about three days prior to my ovulation, because my body is like clockwork. You could have your husband take a sperm count test at another doctor office and say he is having fertility questions about his sperm. Can you share the info. with the other guy or does it matter? Since you are married and planning on keeping the baby, would your husband be okay with your baby if it technically was not his sperm? I would just want my husband to get a paternity test before the baby was born to end the stress of the unknown. Reality brings a lot of consequences that fantasy conveniently escapes. I am not judging you and that part of it is over. What is important is concentrating on making the best of the situation and being there for each other and the baby. The baby will need an actual commited father more than he or she will need to know who the sperm donor was. If the two of you can live with it, just be at peace with the miracle that has been bestowed on you by the universe, no matter the details of the conception.

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