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lonely :[


Question Posted Thursday October 5 2006, 5:43 pm

14/f freshman. i want a boyfriend! ive never had one before , never been kissed or anything. i've had chances (okay like one maybe two) but still :[ i talk to some guys but i dont really have any guys friends. the thing is im really shy. so it sucks, i get weird around guys. i'm kinda interested in these two guys jake and tom. jake is in my gym class and i've talked to him before but the thing is he like talks to everybody. he's a people person. lol. and tom is in english and history with me. i've never really talked to him cause he sits far away. first of all, how can i get up the courage to talk to these guys?? i tried adding tom on myspace but he hasn't added me back :[ also, how can i get other guys to notice me. it's not like i'm ugly, i mean i'm not perfect but i'm not really ugly. i dress nice, you know i wear brand name clothes, straighten my hair almost everyday..makeup, etc. but im shy! ughhhh yeah so what should i do to 1) get guys to notice me, 2) get jake & tom to notice me/talk to me or how i could get up the courage to talk to them.

THANK YOU!<3333


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myusername1 answered Thursday October 5 2006, 9:20 pm:
ok first off - dont want a bf just to have a bf! when theres someone that your REALLY interested in then you go for it, trust me unwanted boyfriends are more trouble than their worth. really, dont be shy! try to talk to boys as you do with your friends, if you put on an act around a guy, usually the notice and call you off. its better to always be yourself. if you like these guy and want to be noticed, you dont have to wear brand name clothes or straighten your hair silly. laugh, smile, show off your personal flirty side, talk to your girlfriends in front of them so they say your name and the boys end up knowing who you are, or ask them about hw or comment them on that "really hot shirt" their wearing that u saw in the window at the mall. little stuff taht you show off guys notice and cling to, most. hope i helped ask if you need nythin else good luck <333

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