ignore him so he misses me; or show him that i care?
Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 9:00 am
alright, i've asked questions here before..
so you probably know the story :)
im in love with a guy who lives on the other side of the planet..
the only way we really keep in touch is through e-mailing..
i had previously decided to not reply until his birthday when i would write an amazing email to show how much i care..
and until then (his bday is at the end of october) he'd miss me (hopefully) and maybe even write "hey, where have you been" or "hey, where'd you fo" or something.. you know?
just to make sure the relationship doesn't get strained or whatever..
BUUT yesterday i got an email from him and it says he misses me, and hopes to see me soon, and things like that.. so this could go one out of two ways, the questions is - which wayy to go?!!
So here's the questions i want answered:
1)do i answer his email?
2) do i make it personal and show him i care?
or do i jsut answer like a chilled out friend?
3) or do i ignore it until his birthday?
4) do you think he'll give p on me if i do that?
or just miss me :) ??
Has anyone been in love with a long distance guy before?
what's your experince with it?
(btw, we're not dating, but he sort of knows i like him.. i think)
OMG!!!!!!!!! I was in the exact same situation. Just reply his e-mail just just be boring about it like a chilled out mate and when its his b'day send him this so amazing e-mail that he could faint, that will show him how much you care.
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