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Girlfriend May Be Cheating, What should I Do?
Here is my situation...I have dated this woman I meet off of the internet personal ads for over 2 and a half years. I thought se was perfect for me. We hit it off right from the getgo, had a lot in common and really enjoyed being together. I was in love and she told me over and over again that she was also. I was ready to make the next step in our relationship when I was suddenly crushed.
I discovered that she was in contact with a old boyfriend that she had dated before meeting me. I discovered messages on her computer and cell phone of her asking him out on a date, for him to name the time and place and a invite to his new house for a house warming once he moved. I also discovered messages containing sexual content about their past and how they would both like to do a repeat sometime. I confronted her and she said that there was nothing to it, that it was total BS and that there was never a meeting. I believed her at 1st but after a month or so I discovered more messages of the same content. All of the messages were sent out from her to him and after she had left me for the evening and she was alone for the night. They were also sent out on the days I was at work and she was off. I would also observe her discretely text mesaging him while we were together. I again confronted her and she still denied anything was going on between the 2 of them. She even got very defensive at times when I questioned her about her actions.
I had had enough and told her I was sick of the BS games so we broke up. In the meantime I had started to chat with someone I had meet off of the internet myself. We went out and had drinks a few times and I discovered that she seemed to care for me and we did share a lot in common. I feel like there also could be a future with her. Meanwhile my old girlfriend wants a 2nd chance and tells me she still loves me and wants to prove it. She still denies any physical contact with her old boyfriend and even said that she will never talk to him again if we get back together. She says I am the one for her and no one else. She has also told me that all along for the last 2 years.
Now, even though I can't prove an actual meeting or anything physical taking place between the 2 of them I still feel cheated. I feel as if though I gave her a chance to clear up the matter and be honest but she didn't. Am I wrong for feeling the way I do? Shoud I give her a 2nd chance? Or should I move on? I also feel as if though she will be more sneaky in the future if there ever is another encounter. Could I be wrong? How should I deal with this?
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dont go out again you have a nice girl right there dont break her heart like your other gitrl did
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