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i need help on secret crushes!!
Hi! I'm Alyssa from the Philippines..
There's this guy in school that is just my seatmate coincidentally. He discovered that I have a crush on him via FRIENDESTER! What is the best thing for me to do?? We're starting to have a gap between us. But I still want to retain our friendship.
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Oh dear! You know, exactly the same thing happened to me when I was at school and it was so embarrassing that I couldn't even look him in the eye any more, let alone keep talking to him the same way.
But you know what else? The reason that gap grew between us for a while was because he liked me too. Only I didn't know it until 5 years after I had left that school and by then, it was too late to do anything about it.
What I'm saying is, if you like this guy, you should tell him how you feel upfront and get it all out in the open. Yes, it's embarrassing and it does mean putting yourself on the line but right now, maybe he doesn't know where exactly you stand and is too shy to say or do anything about it himself.
Next time you get the chance, just come straight out with it and say "I like you. I know you already know that but I had to say it. I'm sorry for the way you found out but if you don't feel the same way, I really hope that we can still be friends."
That gives him a chance to tell you how he feels about you and once you have the whole thing sorted, you will be able to work out the next step, whether you get to go out on a date together or forgetting it and moving forwards as friends.
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