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hey i hav this friend.. his name's seth.. and he used to be my best friend, but then we went out and it was on and off, because everytime i finally get back together with him, i stop liking him and it's really awkward with him, but then when i dump him and he gets a gf, i get really jealous and end up getting back together with him and then dumping him again. and now that he goes to a diff school and everything, i really miss him, and we're barely even friends anymore because everytime i call him he's always busy so i'm sort of losing touch with him. im in 8th grade and i've never had my first kiss yet and he's kinda hott and i sort of want to make out with him, but im afraid that if i go out w/him again, then i'll stop liking him and i don't know what to do. he's really immature and perverted and everything but he's also really nice and hott and everyone says we would make a really cute couple, but my parents really don't like him because he's so immature and perverted, and he's trying to turn emo, and my parents definently wouldn't like that either. what should i do?? should i go for it again and just hope that it'll work out this time or just forget about it? because if i forget about it then i would hav to wait for my first kiss until highschool probably because there's no one else... what should i do?? because last night my firend was joking but she said she going out w/him, and i got really jealous and then he finally told me that he was kiddding and that he didn't hav a gf right now... so should i go for it and take the risk... or should i just forget about it??
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It's pretty clear that you still have feelings for the boy but the real question is, is that healthy way to be?
It sounds to me like he's a little bit destructive. I'm sure you could do much better than him and you don't want to get tied down before meeting all the cute boys at high school anyway.
I think you should wait for your first kiss and do it with someone special you meet instead of Seth in case stuff doesn't work out and your first kiss will be with someone you might hate later on.
And I've had experience with high school drama and if you're young and even if you only kiss a guy, stuff gets blown up and you might be called a slut. You have to watch out for yourself in that kind of environment.
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