Question Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 12:21 am
well... im turning 14 in a month or so. female...
and this guy from my school has liked me for a while. and ive never really had a conversation with him other than on yahoo i/m. when i first started talking to him, i hated him...and then i started wanting to talk to him and he was always trying to talk to me at school but when ever i see him i tense up, panic, and get shaky and nervous. and i think that means i like him...and then i was talking to him tonight on y/i/m. and we were just talking, and he asked me for my number...and i was totally calm and i gave it to him. and then he said he was going to call me...and then i freaked out and got all shaky. and i told him not to. and i know that he got confused. and so did i. does this mean i like him? and how do i get to talk to him without panicking? i really wanted him to call me but then i really didnt want him to? does that make any sence???? damn horomones...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:06 am: Hey-
I've been in this situation before...
Becoming nervous and panicked when I was talking to or around the girl I liked...
What I did was talked to a close friend of theirs (which, luckily, was one of my close friends too... but unless that's the same for you.. go with one of your friends).. and tell them that you like that guy..
Then... have them talk to the guy to find out if he likes you the same way you like him...
(This is the only way you'll find out if he likes you- since you are unable to talk to him yourself)
If he ends up liking you.. just try your hardest to go up to him and just be like "hey, how are you?"
and just let him do the talking.. and nod your head while he does...
Then- if you feel confident enough.. tell him that you like him.. and things will go from there...
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