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he's so honest, and real, and pure.. im not.


Question Posted Monday August 21 2006, 4:47 pm

this dude would never do anythin to hurt me, never do anything dishonest, and just because i love him, i think i have a right to do anything for him to be mine! but its not right, i know that.. and he would never do it to me, i feel so guilty, i just want him.. so badly.. ive cried myself to sleep for about a month now thinking about how badly i need him in my life, so i did something stupid, and i justified it in my head thinking "im just doing it because i loove him s muc" but it was wrong, now where do i go from here? i cant confess! i cant! so what do i do? heelp me please!

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BitsandPieces answered Monday August 21 2006, 10:15 pm:
Love is about giving not taking. You need to be honest and think about what is best for him...the truth. Give him the option to decide for himself if he wants to be with you. Manipulation and deceit will only bring you heartbreak. If you have to pull strings to get someone, then you will always know they did not choose you freely. Victory is never as sweet, when we lie, steal, or cheat. Be brave and follow your heart in being real. At least then, he will know you respected him enough to come clean.

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Cux answered Monday August 21 2006, 8:05 pm:
[[[What exactly are you doing that is bad just to get him?
It doesn't matter.. because you shouldn't do ANYTHING just to be with someone.. you need to talk to this guy and just tell him that you love him.. rather than stress yourself out about not having him...
If you just cry and do nothing.. you won't ever be together.. TALK TO HIM..]]]

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You have to dig deep down in your heart and decide wether you want to be with this guy or if you want to let him pass by
I know there's courage in you to talk to him- but you have to realize you have it..


Let me know how it goes!
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