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Expectations
I recently got out of a crappy relationship and can't even remember what I used to expect out of a guy because I was in this crappy relationship for so long. So what should I expect from a guy like in terms of "what he'd do to be with me" and "motives" and things he says and how much he assures me of his feelings and stuff? Like I know it varies from guy to guy so this is more of an opinion question, so let he hear your opinions and I'll defintely rate high! Thanks a bunch.
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I was also in a crappy relationship for 8 months and I was in your position too. When you get out of the relationship it is hard to know what you really want from a guy because you're so used to being treated not so greatly.
In my opinion, a guy should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. It's up to you to decide what you do and don't like in a guy, but if I could give you one tip it would be: if you think you've found a guy that you could possibly start a relationship with, test it by answering this question...
Can you see yourself still with that guy in 3 months?
If the answer is yes, then maybe you have found someone worth it. Just make sure you trust them and that you know them for who they are on the inside.
If the answer is no, then maybe he's not the right guy. If you have doubts, then they won't go away and you may have regrets.
I hope this helped, and in terms of what to expect from a guy..that's something you will soon figure out for yourself. Because all girls obviously have different tastes! But just make sure he makes you happy.
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