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guy i like has girlfriends
this guy that i am friends with and like as more then a friend is into me i am positive of it because he asked me 2 hook up and then told my best friend he wanted 2 hook up with me the only problem is that he has a a gf so should i hook up with him? wat should i do?
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I know that you like him and are probably quite excited that he has said he likes you too....but can you really do that to his girlfriend?
The problem with guys like this is that they want to have their cake and eat it too. In other words, they don't see a problem with having two women or more at the same time and often actually think it makes them much more cool.
The truth is that guys like this have NO respect for women at all and should the time come where you become his girlfriend, you will not be able to relax and trust him knowing that he cheated on his previous girlfriend to be with you. Plus, what is to stop him from doing it again? Believe me, no matter how attractive or wonderful you are, if this is the sort of guy he is, he WILL do it again.
Have a talk with him if you can. Tell him you would like to get together with him too, but you don't want to do it while he is with someone else. It's not fair to you and it isn't fair to his girlfriend. When you can be certain he doesn't have a girlfriend any more, feel free to go for it. That way, you don't get upset, his girlfriend won't get upset and you don't run the risk of getting a bad reputation.
If he won't break up with his girlfriend, you need to tell him that you won't be the person who leads his attention away from her. It's not right and you aren't that sort of person. After this, move on and try to find a guy who actually has some respect for women. Once you find him, you won't regret it, I promise you because you will be able to have a trusting relationship with someone you know cares about you, rather than someone who might just think of you as his 'bit on the side'. You deserve better than that. You ARE better than that and he needs to know it.
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