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Question Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 12:54 am

well im mad at myself for sayin this but i still like a dude that i been crushin on for about 2years now. his name is david. we was in the same class and he aint like me in that way but everytime i see him its like he's watchin me. but he dont neva say nothin unless we the only ones in the hallway. and he be starin but i dont know what kind of stare it is. i like this other dude that ride my bus his name is marcus and i think he's trynna talk 2 me and i still like him but wheneva i got a text from him even tho it was sweet i was still thinkin about david. i dont wanna mess up things with marcus but i wanna kno how to get david out of my mind since i dont seem 2 be on his. i tried 2 talk 2 him on myspace and i didnt neva see him ova the summer. i still kinda like him and the sad thing is i just got ova likin him until i got this matchmaker thing last year. we had 2 take it and he as on my list. so that made me like him again. i guess. but i still wanna get ova it cuz he only interested in girls that i will neva eva be. so how do i deal with david and marcus?

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BitsandPieces answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:44 am:
So many guys, so little time! Sounds like you have a lot of possible crushes...ah to be young, again! Here's the deal. Most guys are very shy about approaching girls, so pick a time when you are comfortable and start a conversation. Start by smiling and saying hello to each guy you think you might be interested in. Very quickly, you should get an idea of whether or not they have interest in you. Talking with someone you don't really know can make you nervous, so practice talking with some guys who you only are friends with and don't have crushes on. Practice will make it easier for you to approach guys or be ready when they approach you! Don't try to read mixed signals, before you actually get to talk to and know each guy awhile. The matchmaker thing sounds interesting, but don't limit yourself to it. Good luck!

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Cux answered Thursday August 17 2006, 7:55 pm:
Hey-
Whenever you think about david- try to focus your mind on marcus as hard as you can
If that doesn't work- talk to david.. even if other people are in the hall- and tell him how you feel- tell him you can't get him off your mind and you really like him- if he resents you.. you need to just move on... .. if he ends up liking you- then you should see how he is as a boyfriend.. but not before talking to marcus and letting him know what's going on.. nothing is worse than just getting rid of someone without telling them (but make sure when you do tell him - you are very polite.. don't be rude and say it)...
Hope I helped!
Let me know how it goes
--Jack
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