Where to begin?
Okay, I was going out with this guy...
Let’s call him john.
I seriously liked him so much!
Like... so much!
I trusted him, a lot.
We went to the movies together,
And my friends Russell and Christine came.
John turned to me and started kissing me.
I was fine with this...
Until he started to touch me.
His hand fell on my boob,
And he started squeezing it.
Okay... We were only going out for a week!
Then his hand went up my shirt...
And up my bra.
I was nervous, but I trusted him.
Then we went to camp Monday...
(That’s how we met, through camp)
And we had to try-out for solos
John didn’t want to,
But my best friend David did.
David has been my best friend of 2 years,
He’s the best friend ever!
He’s always had feelings for me...
Well that’s what all his friends tell me.
David had a girlfriend ally at the time,
But still joked around about,
How he wanted to kiss me.
And he even once brought me backstage to kiss, but I said
"Ha-ha no David. I’m not cheating on john"
Me and David started getting pretty close.
David always hung around me,
And I was always complimenting David’s voice
(He has this voice... it gives me butterflies every time he sings and makes me want to hold him) john knew David liked me,
But he started to think that I like David too, just because he was always around me.
Then... john broke up with me.
I cried for what seemed like EVER
I just lost this guy... that I liked so much, maybe even loved...
So now camp is over,
And I don’t even talk to john anymore...
He broke up with me on the last day of camp.
I later explained to him, that I love him,
And not David.
David is only a friend. He said... Okay...?
And didn’t talk to me since.
Now, I was on-line,
And David told me he liked me...
We talked on the phone for a while,
And I realized. Wow. I like David!
But... I still love john.
So I told David I like him...
But we can’t go out
David said "ooh I know. I understand. I wouldn’t either because we live in different towns
Then he asked me to go to the movies Thursday (David just broke up with his girlfriend ally about 2 days ago)
I know me and David are going to end up kissing at the movies.
Then, lastly there's this guy Steve.
I went out with him last year,
And he was a great boyfriend
But I broke up with him because he does drugs
And I can’t take that.
I haven’t seen him in a year,
And then I just saw him
He said I’m hot and he wants to hook up with me, but cant because he has a girlfriend
She just broke up with him...
So he'll want to hook up.
What should I do?
About it all...
About John...
Should I get over him?
Should I call him?
Should I apologize?
About David...
Should we be friends with benefits?
Should I go out with him?
About Steve...
should we be friends with benefits?
Should I even try... because I hate drugs!?
And any other questions you can think of.
Thank you.
pootietang answered Tuesday August 1 2006, 3:59 pm: Okay. Don't be more than friends with Steve. You and him both know that you don't like drugs, so don't even give it a chance. If you do, you'll end up liking him a lot, but he still won't stop the drugs.
You shouldn't be friends-with-benefits with anyone. I think you should give David a chance because you can trust him (you've been best friends for 2 years). Don't let him touch you like John did, and you should NEVER let a guy do that to you unless you've been dating for at least 6 months.
About John, don't apologize. You said you loved him and he didn't seem to care. So you want him back? You shouldn't. So don't apologize and don't call him, but DO get over him.
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