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should i go back out with him again?
okay me and this guy have been going on and off for quite a long time. he said he used to love me and i fell for it. i really did love him. he sometimes makes me cry when we get in arguments. and i know he lies to me about some things. it's really obvious. i know this sounds kind of selfish, but he doesn't like it when i talk on the phone with other guys, so i stopped that for awhile. and i put an effort to stop it. but then he talks on the phone with other girls too. recently he told me i could talk to otehr guys because he'd be being a hypocrite. but shouldn't a couple always want to talk to eachother if he really loved me? but when those things are set aside, everything is perfect to me. i gave him plenty of chances. we went out too many times to count. and i'm tired of getting my heart broken. but if for some reason he says he likes me again and wants to go back out with me again and i feel that he changes, should i go back out with him?
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he says he used to love you? well. i've thought that i stopped loving someone, when really i was just overthinking everything and making things sound way worse than they actually were. so maybe hes just confused and needs to really think about how he really feels. Because if yall have gotten back together so many times than there must still be somethign there. and everyone gets upset in an argument! dont worry hes not treating you horrible or anything.
the lieing? well. it really depends on what he's lieing about. although, lieing doesnt help and they could start out small and if you blow them off then he'll think its okay and then the lies could become bigger. but if its not huge, and if you explain to him that youd ont like his lieing then i wouldnt worry.
i completely understand that your tired of getting your heartbroken. really i think you just need to think of the good things about being in this relationship and compare them to the bad things. and if the bad outweigh the good and he wants to get back together, then i would really think twice about what decision to make. because he could totally convince you that he's changed but, hasnt he done that all the other times that yall have gotten back together? you just have to ask yourself these questions before setting yourself up for another heartbreak =
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