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Boys Boys Boys.


Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:00 pm

Hey there.

SO there's this kid, and I kind of like him. (Ok I do.) and recently he dumped a bag of mulch on my porch with his friend. And we are totally in a fight right now. WEll not in a fight but I'm just not talking to him. I want to like forgive him and not be fighting anymore, but 1) he hasn't exactly apologized. 2) I don't want to be like ok, I;m not mad at you anymore. we can talk on the phone all the time now :) Because that would sound like utterly gay. haha. Please tell me what I should say and what I should do to get out of this fight, but not sound gay?

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AuntieEm answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 11:37 pm:
ally?



Well, first off, you have a right to be mad at him, that is totally messed up!

Call him up and be like, "look <insert mulch boys name here> what you did was really messed up and totally immature. Like, it wasnt even funny...it was just kinda stupid. If someone did that to you, i know you would be pissed off. My rents got mad about it and i had to clean it up all by my self (even if you didnt)." that, unless he is an idiot, should make him say something along the lines of "your right, i would be pissed off, and im really sorry you had to clean it up, i shouldnt have done that"
if he doesnt appologize, be like "look<name> i dont want to fight about this, and i dont like being mad at you, but that was really fucked up, why would you even do that?" (his answer will be stupid to the question im sure)

just think of it this way, if you didnt like him, what would you say?
i mean, if it was someone you hated, obviously you would be a bitch, if it was your BFFAE, you wouldnt be as bad.

if he doesnt take the hints that you are mad and he needs to say sorry, maybe he doesnt deserve to be forgiven, yet. As much as you like him and dont want to not talk to him, if he is doin this and not appologizing, its somethin ya gotta think about : )


WOWZA that took a while, but you are worth it : )

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