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uhmm. these twoo boys. =/


Question Posted Monday June 26 2006, 11:19 pm

hey katiee.
well, somethings been bothering mee lately.
and i dont know if i can like sum this up
in 2000 words. because its kind of hard. . but oh well. ill try <3.

theres this boy i know. me and him
are like i dont know, friends with benefits,
you could say. && i did something really wrong.
i fell in love with him. . and he fell in love with me too.
but this kid was like i dont know one of my really good friends. && then he told me he was moving away. and he did but he sometimes comes here and visits or whatever. but stupid me i found myself like not being able to not think about him. if that makes sense.. so i told myself that i cant like him anymore and that i had to get over him. and i really tried. i like . .i dont know focused on other people, tried to like people i used to; i did like everything. i even convinced myself that i liked my ex and we like made out and stuff and it still wasnt the same. && now "the boy that moved" found out that im trying to not like him anymore and he absolutely hates me. he wont even look at me and talk to me anymore and i feel like complete shit. i seriously dont even know what to do about this. like its the most horriblest feeling ever, to like, basically love someone and have to forget about them, and then them hate you for lovign them. i dont know. if this makes no sense im really soryy for making you read all of it. usually i can handle this stuff on my own because im usually good at it. . im jsut really fucking confused and i really need help. pleasee help =/.
yours, gjasuihosah. =/


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sorry_about_that_x3 answered Monday June 26 2006, 11:32 pm:
I know how you feel when you have someone you love, hating you, trust me. Maybe you should try explaining to him what happened.. and how hurt you are and what you went threw. I went threw something kind of like this. So basically you just want him to be okay with you? I would just say to try and tell him what happened basically and if that doesnt work, just keep trying to get over him. I wish so badly that I could make people not hate each other for reasons like this, but sometimes you just cant. But i mean this when i say i know what your going threw too. But your not stupid for trying to get over him, cause thats what you should be doing when you want to not hurt anymore, and you want to be able to be your happy self again. By trying to get over him, you were helping yourself in the long run, cause really- if you kept liking him, how are you going to like someone new? How are you going to be happy ever again when you find out he has a girlfriend and your left in the dust with nothing but a broken heart? So your not stupid for trying to get over him. Theres not really much you can do in a situation like this but tell him what you side of the story is. Im sorry that i can't tell you how to make him like you, i wish i could do that for people.. but if you want to i.m me at HONEYBUNS9223- im always here to talk to cause I can relate to whats happeneing to you. So feel free to talk to me or contact me or what not. I reallyyy hope this helped.
Love, katie &hearts;

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