me and the love of my life were engaged he was also living with me and my paretns we were always close we gave each other space aswell but things started gettin out of hand i wanted 2 go out on the town with the girl and to have a laugh but he was shouting in my face so i slapped him 2 shut him up hes now sayin its all my fault hes even phoning me asking me what im up to and that he even came dwn for a chat and he was hugging and kissing me i felt like breaking down but i know i have to be strong he said he wants to be mates at the moment to see how things go between us but im so confused and i dont know what to do he means everything to me i loves him loads n he tells me he does 2 what shall do plz help me cant go on living my life much longer lucy17 xx
This is kind of hard to answer without knowing more details... It's difficult to imagine he would make you angry enough to slap him just because you wanted to go out with your friends, so there is probably more to this, correct?
Was the argument about him not trusting you? Or was he afraid you would get drunk and sleep with another guy? Or have you had words when he wants to go out with his friends? Have you given him any reason to not trust you 100%? Have the friends you wanted to go out with given him any reason to not trust them?
What exactly was he yelling about? Without knowing the details, it's difficult to know what the real situation is here. And I know it's hard to be impartial, but try to give the details from both sides of the story. Imagine that he was also here telling his side, and what he would say from his point of view... Make sure to include that too, so I can try to help with a whole situation, rather than a one-sided one. [ DangerWench's advice column | Ask DangerWench A Question ]
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