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Question Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 6:45 pm

hey..i see that you give really good advice and i was wondering if you could help me out. I have been talking to this one guy for awhile now and we seem to really like eachother and i think im starting to fall for him. I dont really know what to do about the situation and i would really like us to be bf and gf. What should i do?

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Ghelp answered Monday June 5 2006, 9:06 pm:
Oh thanx for the compliment I haven't been on here in awhile though. Um lets see if i can help. If your starting to fall for someone then let yourself. Especially if the other person is going to catch you. I have realized that when i find someone i can relate with and when i am attracted to them on a personal, physical and intellectual level i can't help but think about them. It's weird ill be doing something and then that one girl's face will pop into my head along with memories of us. Im in kinda of the same situation as you right now...and im struggling with it as well. Although the girl I have fallen for i think is going to let me drop. Im not positive ...but i have seen signs. Make sure that you tell the person how you feel...never miss the oppurtunity because if the guy is like me he will think your not into him and will move on with a broken heart. So try not to hurt him or yourself, make it easy and tell him that the two of you need to talk about a possible future together. Then you should open up and tell him he makes you smile...or you think about him...or whatever he has done to change your life even if in the most tiny insignificant way. He will feel loved and will charish you forever I am sure. I'm just going on what would be one of the best feelings in the world for me..to hear a girl i care for open her heart to me. Unfourtanately most of the girls i start to care for string me along usually to see if i will eventually say "i like you..." or 'you have turned my world upside down" It's my weakness i get the feeling they are into me...and we talk on a personal level and i then i can't stop thinking about how amazing things could be. That's when things burn. Idk why im rambling on about myself srry here is your answer. lol Please tell him how you feel and if there is a weird situation you are in right now that makes you second guess whether you should have a relationship he would be happy to push through the bad along side of you. It is usually easier to let someone who cares about you into your life. Because they care they are willing to carry your burden and protect you from harm, whether emotional or phsyical. So let him into your world...just make sure he is osmeone who won't steal it and run. Some guys do that...usually if he has alot of gfs or something it might be a sign. Just make sure everything feels right...and when you are ready open your lips and let him hear what im sure he has been waiting for...words of feeling. Hope that helps you. Get it gurl.

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