today my friends were all hanging out, and 2 started joking around saying that i'd kissed one of the guys (guy 1 hehe) and that i fancied him and stuff, saying they'd heard it from another friend. it isn't true, and everybody knows it, but i wasn't really bothered - i mean, mates always have a laugh like that together. but later on when i was alone with another guy mate (guy 2) he said that guy 1 had said i was pretty and the he said he agreed with guy 1. i don't really fancy either of them (even though guy 1 is a pretty hot hehe) and i just shrugged it off. later on (again hehe) i was alone with guy 1 and i said 'just ignore everyone - you know what they're like.' and he said 'yeah i know don't worry. i don't see you in that light anyway. i just see you as a mate.' which isn't that bad but that's the third time this week a lad that i've you know fancied a bit has said they see me as a mate. it's getting irritating now, because there are like one or two guys i think could fancy me but i just don't fancy them!!!
i'm all for being mates with guys, but is it going to be 'i just see you as a mate.' for like the rest of my life? i haven't been out for anyone in over 2 years!
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