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Last Chance
Ok...I'm 14/f. Since it's the end of the school year at and I wont be going back to my current school I wanted to tell this guy that I've liked for about 3 years how I feel. The question is how do I get the guts to say it? I mean he's one of my good friends and all but this will be the last time I see him and it's gonna kill me if I dont tell him! What do I do? I rate high! Plz and thank you!
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if your afraid to do it in person,
try a note, or a phone call.
remember, you could live all your life
thinking "what if i had told him" or you
can take the plunge, and it wont haunt you
forever && a day.
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I had the exact same problem when I was 12. There really is nothing you can do to help summon the courage except to remind yourself that this will be your last opportunity.
You know, I really had a big thing for this guy for two years before I left school and I never told him how I felt. My 'friend' did and harassed him so much (allegedly on my behalf) that he refused to speak to me. So I sent him a letter, telling him how I felt and what had happened. I never heard from him again.
This is why I want to stress to you that you NEED to tell him. Until a few years ago, I always regretted not telling him how I felt because the worst he could have done was said no. I don't want you to go through this because the regret you feel is like a constant torture at the back of your mind.
Whatever you do, before school ends, tell him that you really like him and have for some time and even if he doesn't feel the same way, you just didn't want to never have told him that. Leave it there and if he likes you too, he should tell you. If not, you haven't lost anything but you prevented yourself from suffering huge regrets. So take a deep breath and just do it.
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You really need to tell him to his face. As hard as it will be to confront him, it would be the best way, because he would know it was heartfelt. And if you don't do it to his face, you'll always wonder what would have happened if you had.
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