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breakups
ok so i recently broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months. im only 13 and i dont know if im truly in love with the guy or not. i can't stop thinking aobut him but all my friends think i hate him but i dont. i really want him back but it would make alot of things worse. i cry alot becuase i really did care about him but i have no idea if he cared for me and i really miss him alot. whenever i see him it makes me miss him more. i can be stnding right next to him and miss him so much. so the other day at party he was there nd he kept looking at me with this sad face then turning away when i saw him what does that mean? when i left that party i felt like i walked away with any chance of letting him kno that i liked him. when we broke up i cried so hard and i still do he was my best friend and he just meant everythin to me. how do i get over him?
sry that didn't make alot of sense
thanks for the help
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Ah i'm sorry hun! Break-ups are the worst, expecially when you loose a good friend along with it. Well the tought of him will stay for a while, because you are so used to him being there. I think the best thing for you to get over him is to find some closure. Try talking with him, ask as a friend what went wrong, and express both views/sides. Let him talk, if he wants and then express how you are feeling at the moment. Remember by holding in these feeling, its not letting him see or feel them. Men arn't mind readers! ( even though I wish they were, life would be so much easier!lol). Once you are done expressing what you have to say, then you have to realize that is all you can do, becuase it's like a game of tennis- He breaks up with you ( ball is in your court)Now you are sitting here upset and sad, and confused on what to do. So like the game of tennis, hit it back. Ask questions! Its ok to, and its ok to let him know how you are feeling. Once you have done that, its all you can truely do untill he makes the next move. Be pacitent though, guys tend to be slow when it comes to feelings.
Best of luck, and I hope you feel better.
Oh and ways to get over him: ICECREAM allways does the trick, and just having a girls night, which incluses movies, snacks, and pampering!
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