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im in love with my best friend
ok so you know me but im not going to tell you who i am. So theres this kid thats been my best friend for a couple of years now. We've dated once before, about a year ago. I can honestly say its the only time in the past 4 or 5 years that ive TRUELY been happy. Whenever he gets a new g/f i get soooo upset that i cry. He knows i still have feelings for him and when i ask him if there might be a chance for us again he says, "no clue, but right now no." I try and tell myself to get over him because im wasting my life but theres just something about him i cant get over. What do i do? Do i forget about him? Do i wiat? I havent had feelings for anyone besides him in like a year and a half. And whenever i think i do, i always end up pushing that person away. Because i think as soon as i get close to someone else, he will start to like me and ill lose my chance. HELP ME MADISON GRACE! please, thank you, and i love you.
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hard situation dear,
I agree with you on wanting to move on, thats the only healthy thing to do. I wouldn't wait for him to come around, becuase knowing guys, the are VERY slow with realizing thing. Don't wait, if I were you, I would try as hard as I can to do things that take my mind off of this guy. Hang out with friends, good music help
I understand him not giving you a straight reply, becuase the future can't be told this early on. You might end up going out agian, and then you might not. I don't think he wants to hurt your feelings saying yes, or no. As for forgetting him, I honeslty don't think that anyone forget a speical someone. You won't forget him no matter how hard you try. With pushing the other guys away, i would try giving them a try, as hard as it is. You need to tell yourself that you and this other guy are over at the time, and you deserve to date other guys, you owe it to yourself. When it comes time to dating other guys, you can't compare them to the other guy, because no 2 guys are the same, and you will get no where if you always compare. Take the risk of actually liking another guy!
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