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Asking someone out
Hey, I followed your advice on getting to know a boy I liked better.We are getting on really well texting and on msn for hours and seeing each other everyday. His sister told me he likes me and she is also a good friend and wouldnt lie to me. She said he wouldnt ask me out because the last time he did I said no. I have never asked anyone out before and I dont know how to do it, by msn, text, face to face. Im really nervous but I need to do it, Im not going to make the mistake of letting him go again. What would I have to say?? I am really nervous so any advice you could give I would really appreciate it. I am nearly 15 and female.
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Well first of all, I'm SO pleased that things are going well so far!
I always tend to think that asking someone out is best done face to face. There's nothing really wrong with asking someone out over text or msn. It's just a little impersonal.
Try to brooch the subject casually to begin with by saying something about how much you've enjoyed hanging out with him lately and it's been good really getting to know him. Then tell him you were wondering if there was any way you could be more than just friends because you've had feelings for him for a while.
See how he responds to that and if he seems to react positively, ask him if he would be interested on going out with you on a date sometime.
If his sister has already told you he likes you, I don't think you have anything to lose and it seems like it's already in the bag! All you need to do is pluck up the courage and ask him!
I really hope it goes well. Best of luck!
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