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ok so im going out with this amzing guy but i have lost some rly good friends becuase of this. everyone says i should date someone else and tell me stuff that he likes someone else but when i ask him he ALWAYS says no thats not true and i dont kno if hes lieing or not...should i stick with him or no?
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Well if you have any reason to question him, then there must be a good reason to. I'm sorry to hear that you have lost some good friends. Was it becuase you were allways hanging out with him, or becuase they didn't want to be with you while you are dating him? Either way, I think I would first try and mend your problems with your good friends. They will be there till the end, and unfortantly the guy wont. With them telling you that you should date someone else, it might be becuase maybe they know some info about your guy that you don't know, and don't want to see you get hurt. I don't think they would just go around and say the guy isn't right for you, if it wasn't for a good reason. Ask them about it, and try to listen to their reasoning, and then inform them on all the good things about him. They might only be noticing the bad things, so tell them the good. If there is no good, well then obv. you shouldn't be with him.
When it comes down to it, you have to listen to your heart. You friends can give advice or their own say in the situation, but you need to make the finial call. Try weighing the pros and cons on the relationship. Or list the good and bad things about the guy.
Best of luck!
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