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please take the time and rean this i need help....im 14 years old and i have never been in a real relation ship people aways say im soo pretty and nice sweet caring but for some reason i say no to all of them i dont think i have enough courage to be in a relation ship i mean i want one sooo bad but i just dont wanna get hurt i dont wanna hurt any one and i think ill come on to strong or the will just use me for my and when i think im gonna give some one a change i freze up and say no i wanna be love im so sick of bein lonley
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I know it seems like everyone around you seems to be able to get into happy relationships but there's really no need to hurry. I didn't get into a serious relationship until I was 17 and I was happy with that.
The truth is that although relationships are nice and if you have one with the right person, they can be amazing and extremely fulfilling, they are also a LOT of work. I know you are lonely right now but 14 is very young for a serious relationship and a real commitment. Most guys your age won't be interested in a commitment right now and guys older than you will want to have sex, which you shouldn't be having until you are 16. I don't want it to sound like I'm being harsh but I want you to know that the reality of a steady relationship is that you need to have age, experience and patience to make it work because otherwise you won't make it through the tough times.
At 14 years old, all of that is a big responsibility and a lot to be taking on. If you meet a guy that you think is perfect for you then by all means go for it. But don't go out looking for a steady relationship right now. Find someone you like first and then see where it leads to.
You seem like a really nice person and I expect that when the time comes, you will have a brilliant love-filled relationship with a guy who truly deserves you but I'm a great believer in fate and it's possible that you just aren't ready for it now. Try not to worry about it so much. Put yourself out there, get involved in your social life and take up a hobby or two. Meet some new people and see what happens. Love will find you, just like it finds all of us but you can't force it. Give it time and it will happen. In the meantime, make the most of the freedom of single life.
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