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I like this guy very much. He is always on my mind && i wish I could be his for ever. He took my virginity but we argue alot now. He is leaving for a long time, for about 2 years or more. He may come back for summers and when I get a job I may be able to go see him.I want to make this time I have left with him special but I dont want to hurt when he leaves.
What should I do?
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The sad truth about love is that it will always hurt when it goes away. As much as I REALLY want to tell you something that will make this easier for you, the fact is that no matter whether you argue or get on perfectly, judging by the way you feel about him, it will hurt.
You need to work out why you're arguing with him so much first of all so you can resolve the problem. Maybe he feels the same way and you're pushing each other away now to make it easier when he has to leave? Whatever the issues are, you need to work them out.
Remember that long distance relationships CAN work but they are a LOT of effort. I really cannot stress this enough. No matter how you feel about someone, it is always difficult to maintain those sorts of feelings when you speak over e-mail or by letter and you have no idea what is really going on in each other's lives. If both of you want to make it work, then it will but you'll both need to be prepared to put in the effort for it.
Whatever happens, make sure that when he leaves you have plenty of tissues, plenty of tubs of ice cream (or any other favourite dessert) and remember that although it will hurt a lot to start with, it doens't have to be the end of your relationship.
I wish the both of you the best of luck.
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I would og on a trip together just for a day and a night, share a bedroom, (you know) in a hotel and do whatever you like best in that day or two, that's a proper send-off, to show that you care and always will!
Hope this helps!
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