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ok just for the record i am a girl! ok i really really like this guy i have liked him for almost a year and he dose not know it and i really really want to tell him in person but i can not get up the gutts and we are both home schooled so we are not like just go up and say i really like and what not and he is one year younger and i do not knwo if he likes me and i do not know any of his friends who are my good friends and i just really really like him and i am a christian pastors kid and so is he and so yea he dose not go to my church anymore and it is just like GGGGGRRRRR really really bothering me and i sent him an e-mail on one of my other e-mails and i put that i was (sorry if i spell this wrong) anonomyse and he dose not know and so i just am kinda shy and it is really hard because i know his mom and his dad and it is just GGGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRR for all you home schoolers who are christians i know there are some of you out there please please help me!!!!!!!!!
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Okay, if you are both the children of Christian Pastors then you will have to tread lightly on both counts, as it is usually quite difficult to earn the trust of a parent who is a member of the cloth.
The first thing I would say is that you really will have to pluck up the courage to ask him out. Trust me, I KNOW how horribly nerve-wracking, stomach-wrenching and sweat-enducing it is but if you haven't got anyone to do it for you and if you don't think he's about to do it anytime soon then you will have to grab the bull by the horns and do it yourself. Just tell him that you think you like him as more than a friend and you wondered if he would like to go out with you sometime. The absoloute worst he is likely to do is say no.
If he should say yes (and I don't see why he shouldn't), I would also suggest that you run it by both your parents first. As much as it may suck to admit it, you need to let them know what's going on because they will really really be mad at you both if they find out at a later date.
Just remember that if he does say no, it's not the be-all and end-all because I firmly believe that there is at least one person out there for EVERYONE and that includes you! If he says no, it just means you have more time to search for that someone. So take a deep breath, go for it and I wish you the very best of luck.
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