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alot of things
Ok im a 13 year old. my best friend (14)..well he brother is 15. He likes me and i like him. We went to 3rd base and my friedn doesnt even know.
1. i think i love him.. im only 13 i know.. we arnet going out.. and i get so scared to mention it.. and he mentioned it to me but he said sence we cant let my friend know there is know point but i really wana go out with him.
2. he wants to fingure me. what do i do. when he does it what do i do with my hands and everything.?
3. any tips on kissing?
4. my period.. it is really hevey any thing to stop cramps?
5. yeah and he wants to maek out naked with me and i say no becaue im not confortalble with my body and i dotn wana tell him that so what is there...
please answer these by the numbber*
thanks..
and he is not useing me just for this.. hes not like that.. i sware
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As far as being in love, I can not sit here and tell you how you are feeling. That's just something you're going to have to figure out on your own. Just in keep mind that you are young. You may feel a great deal for someone at this present moment, and that's wonderful, but I think you'll be surprised at how your teenage years will change you.
About the "finguring", don't move too fast. I promise I don't mean this to be an attack, but before you actually engage in "finguring", learn how to spell it. That's all I can say about that here on Advicenators. If you would like to discuss this in further detail, feel free to message me on AIM/AOL.
Kissing: it's difficult to tell you how to kiss. I'm sorry to provide such an average reply, but it usually "comes naturally". At any rate, I've found a few websites that think they are capable of supplying some great tips:
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And if you weren't already aware, there are many ways to lessen the intensity of menstrual cramping. It's well known that regular physical activity helps reduce the cramping in some women, so there's an idea. You could also try taking a warm bath and using aromatherapy. Applying a heating pad on your lower abdomen or back should do wonders. If you don't have a heating pad, you can make one by simply filling a sock with rice and heating it in the microwave for a few minutes [must sound silly, but if the cramps get bad enough, it just might be worth it]. Also, many women start taking pills around the clock from the time their cycle starts, until it ends. Any pain killer will do, but I reccommend Ibuprofen, Extra Strength Advil or Midol -- it's also best to take medication will a meal, that way the risk of stomach discomfort is slimmed.
For future reference, being uncomfortable with your body isn't anything to be ashamed of. Trust me, you're not the only American who is a tiny bit self-conscious, I promise. However, just because you're not the only one who feels this way, doesn't mean you have to go around spewing it to the world. If you're embarrassed to mention your nervousness, then I can understand that. Just tell him that you feel it's too soon for such acts and you would appreciate some time to grow on each other before baring all to him. That is a perfectly acceptable and mature response. If he is unwilling to accept that, then I'm sure you know what to do with the pathetic slimeball. ;)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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