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i need help with a guy


Question Posted Saturday January 21 2006, 12:11 am

i like this kid n hes gay but hes a senior n im a freshman. we have alot in common n im thinking of asking him out how would the easyest way to ask him without making an ass of my self.

thnx


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LadyGoodman answered Saturday January 21 2006, 1:53 am:
Well... I think asking out a senior at this point would be kind of pointless... I'm a senior right now and I know if a freshman were to ask me out I'd be like, "sorry, kid. I'm graduating soon, and you're stuck here for another 3 years."

That doesn't even get to the real problem though. He's gay? I'm sorry...I know this isn't what you want to hear, but you're not going to change him. By senior year, people pretty much know what they like I'd think. If a senior is set on the idea that he's gay, that's just not going to change. It's just like if one of your best girl friends tried to make you like her even though you're straight. Wouldn't work out so well would it? I strongly suggest not asking him out because it would seem like you're not respecting who he is and it would have a 99% chance of ending with rejection.

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