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depressed...


Question Posted Friday December 9 2005, 11:31 pm

Me and Ryan broke up so I went to call up anthony cause he knows ryan better than anyone and I was gonna ask him if he thought me and ryan would go back out and he was like no and all that stuff.. so we started joking around about doing stuff with each other and then he got serious and asked me if i wanted to come over the next day after me and ryan had been broken up for like an hour. So i kept saying no.. he kept asking me the next couple of days and i said no so I decided to tell Ryan... Anthony totally denied the whole thing said he was joking... so then ryan called me up told me in these exact words:
"Michelle, I fucking hate you. Get out of my fucking life. I can't believe it, you out of all people lied to me.. you are one dumb, dumb bitch."
so then I told him that I never lied and he said:
"How can I fucking believe you michelle? You are fucking psycho and I am suprised it lasted this long. Just get the fuck out of my life. I don't want to talk to you ever again and don't come up to me at school. Just stay the fuck out of my life."
So then I cried to everyone and he called me back and I guess that he's going to talk to me like sometime this week about the whole thing. I've been crying every night since monday, the day we broke up. I hate it so bad.. I just want to be back happy with him again. Me and Ryan have been dating for 13 months and this is our first break up..


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LongLostHeart answered Sunday December 11 2005, 9:27 pm:
Well,I won't lie to you,this is a tough one.

First off, it seems that Anthony has liked you for a while since he immediatly started hitting on you.

And Ryan seems to be overreacting to this whole thing,especially since he didn't trust you over his friend. I mean,you went out for 13 months and he trusted his best friend over you....

Maybe he'll trgain his senses and calm down after a while and ask you back out.I think he will.

But in the mean-time, go out with your friends more,watch a funny movie or Comedy Central before you go to sleep,read a good book,draw,listen to music to make you less depressed and try to focus on something else besides him.

Don't completly avoid Ryan at school,but I would avoid Anthony a bit. Just keep going on with your life.

Now,if you ever feel really depressed I want you to IM me:

AFI Demon Angel

You don't have to tell me specifics but I'll do my best to make you feel better.I'm always on at night and sometimes during the day.

Hope you feel better!
<3

~Long Lost Heart

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