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hey!it's america's most wanted sad love life,
i'm 13 years old. and i'm a female
well here's how this all started. i know this boy(same age, same grade, different school) this boy is my older brother's friend.Me and this boy always flirt around with eachother there's not one day if he passes by me, that he doesn't say something sweet or funny. i love him, alot i've never kissed and never had a boyfriend(this isn't the point)my best friend asked him one day if he liked me, he said no. cuz i'm ugly. But deep down inside me and my best friend know that he likes me. we almost got into a fight 2-3 weeks ago. Not just a fight but a fist fight. Now he's going around telling the whole neighborhood he beat me up. I'm mad because
1. we don't talk anymore
2. he's spreading lies about me
3. i still love him
4.i just don't know what to do
5. should i give up?
6. on top of that i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend!!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO ABOUT EVERY SINGLE PART OFTHIS MESS. PLEASE HELP ME!!! YOU CAN EMAIL ME YOUR THOUGHTS AT MY EMAIL: otnotuandme@yahoo.com@ there's no spaces nor capitals in my email. thanx lots!!!
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aww listen up...
this is NOT by any means your fault.
So, yes, the situation does sound a little bit peculiar, but I'll try and make sense of it. :]
And make sense for you...so you can sort through this and either move on...or just BE together already. Although I'm not sure he's THAT worth it at this point.
Maybe he's just one of those SUPER flirty guys, and really doesn't like you. Now thats just worst case scenario, but we have to lay that down because if he LIKES you the way he should, why the HECK would any guy in their right mind come close to having a fist fight with a girl??? That's just really indecent for a guy to be doing. Even when a guy doesn't like a girl...he usually wont fist fight one. Thats the lowest of all lows. Unless he's got some big apologies or explanations, that guy has a jerky side to him! And by the way, does your brother know he almost tried to fight you?! Your crush has got some big respect issues. BIG.
Not to mention...he called you ugly? if he DOES like you...he's doing everything in his power to cover it up. To me, that's plain immature. I think he really ought to apologize if all of this was some stupid joke or something. Weird joke if you ask me. And spreading some HUGE rumor around the neighborhood??? That is the last straw. You've never even had your first kiss yet. There's nothing wrong with that...but don't let this jerk have the opportunity to give it to you. He's a horrible person!
I mean maybe one or two screwups is understandable...but he did 3 outrageously rude things to you. He does not by ANY means deserve you. Don't even subject yourself to that stort of hurt. Because guys like that will be miserable...m-i-s-e-r-a-b-l-e to date.
I know you still 'love' him...but you need to find a way to get past him. I know it's hard right now but try and ignore him if he comes to your house or get out of the situation && walk to a friends house or go see a movie or something. Point being--don't be near him. He's not good for you right now. And if in the future for whatever reason he changes, fine. But for now, give yourself some room to breathe. So atleast if you can actually live without him you'll know once you get some time away and whether he starts to fade out.
I guarentee eventually a better guy will come into your life and atleast distract you from the other one. And if your not allowed to have a boyfriend, I guess the whole thing isn't a problem right now. Worry about that when it comes, anyway. Plus-- how would your parents know? Couldn't you just tell them you like eachother but your not 'dating'?? You don't nescesarily have to be officially going out.
If you need any more help inbox me again or ask for my SN if you want. I don't generally do e-mails, but if you really prefer me to, let me know and I will :]
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